arati sharma

politics, advocacy, relationships: life as a 20-something year old.
Wed Aug 27

Sisterhood of the Travelling Pantsuits!

If the Democrats in Denver can talk seriously about Education and early outreach, than so can our politicians. I hate to write about the convention, considering every blogger on the web is doing it, but what I have observed as someone within the Canadian post-secondary education sector is that we need a solid plan.

I know our governments and spending powers are different, but in this global economy we need a nation-wide plan to ensure education is available to our generation, and the ones to come.

If Canadians and the government are worried about our economy, we need to understand that a pan-Canadian accord for education will make our beautiful country competitive with the rest of the world. We need to face the facts here, every modern country competing in the global arena has a plan for education, or at least they are working on one. Yes, the federal government has announced a Science and Technology Plan, yes they have committed to supporting low-income students, and yes they understand that a stronger federal presence is necessary.

But what I’m worried about is that underrepresented child who can’t even think about pursuing education because she has to take two jobs to help with the family’s rent. I’m worried about that mother looking to go back to grad school so she can provide a better life for her family. I’m worried about teens dropping out of high school to work in an industry that may not be around in a couple of years.

The reality of the situation is this; the vast majority of students within higher education come from middle to upper class backgrounds. Their parents have attended higher education, and who can afford, or barely afford, to take out four years of their life to talk about peace and justice, to study ancient civilizations, and to examine micro organisms.

Now if we are serious about allowing each Canadian to achieve their dreams we need to support the Access Agenda. We need to ensure that young children are not scared to pursue higher education due to debt aversion and unrealistic costs of education. We need to ensure that those who do not have credit cards or savings can begin the process off applying to university, college or apprenticeship programs. And we need to ensure that those students within higher education are able to complete their studies without worrying about how they will pay for September tuition, rent, academic materials and food.

This is possible. We can do this through up-front, targeted grants for underrepresented students. We can do this through affordable tuition and a sound, modern student financial aid system. We can do this by allowing international students to collaborate in our world-class facilities. We can do this by supporting research and reducing barriers for those pursuing higher education.

As Senator Clinton said tonight, “A world-class education system to make college affordable for everyone” will make America stronger and competitive. Canadians need to think about our future and where we stand in the world. Many of our federal and provincial leaders are in Denver right now, if anyone watched the Tony Clement interview on CBC today, you know what I mean. Well I hope their ears are perked up to the way of the future: Prosperity, Hope, and Change through accessible, accountable, affordable and high quality education.

Canadians, it’s time we understood how important a pan-Canadian accord on education will be for the future of our country. Let’s learn something from our neighbours and understand that education is just as important as energy, the economy and the environment. Let’s make the looming federal election about education and secure the sustainability and prosperity of our future.

Mon Aug 25

Post-Weekend Thoughts.

Soundtrack of the weekend: Feist.

Overall, the weekend was great. Time to catch up with family and old friends. There’s something about Sharma family reunions that leave me filled with strength and faith to face the challenges of this world. I’m so much more honest with myself after spending time with my cousins and siblings, it’s like I don’t have to worry because they will always support me. I suppose we were all put in one family for a reason.

It’s amazing how quickly children grow up, little arjun (my nephew) is now one years old. It’s amazing how quickly children grow up, but adults seem to digress at some point from young adult to adult.

Sometimes I think that children have more knowledge than the wisest of adults. Their hearts are pure, the feelings are innocent, and they always speak with blatant honesty.

Children say what they feel, know what they want, and I think have all the power in the world. Why is it that when we “grow-up”, we question our actions to the point of insanity? Why is it that when we “mature”, we stop taking the risks and the opportunities this world has to offer?

Children will jump off that high swing with no worry in the world, whereas we will complicate or justify decisions by long lists of pros vs. cons. I suppose our hearts have been broken and our innocence shattered throughout the years that fear has built these tall walls around us.

I believe children are sent by God not to populate this Earth, because believe me I don’t know how happy “he” is with the way we’re treating it, but to remind us all of truth and pure love. Children are God’s voices, and we adults manage to screw them up through this world we’ve created.

I don’t mean to put a damper on everyone’s mood, I’m not saying we’re all like this, I mean I still take chances and make mistakes. But, it’s not with the same innocence as a child.

I’m just not sure if that’s better or worse.

Arati

Fri Aug 22

Also, to everyone who is wondering if I’ve changed since I’ve been in ottawa, I have. To understand me now, you must watch Old Greg. Govinda, Deeps and Varun, I know you think I’m weird already, but just wait until you watch this. LOL.

Grocery store times with Rye.

Grocery store times with Rye.

Grocery store times with Rye

Grocery store times with Rye

Alone in the CASA Office: Day 4 and 5... fever, Ryan, and Home!

Hey Everyone!

Sorry I didn’t update yesterday! I had an odd day. I woke up with a fever and nausea…I won’t give you the details but I was feeling pretty under the weather. So I msged Zach and he said stay in and go to the hospital. Well, as much as I love Zach and take his advice when it comes to feeling sick (he has crones) I decided that 4 hrs in the waiting room for the doctor to tell me to get some rest didn’t make sense. So I passed out and woke up at 1 feeling much better.

I decided I needed some fresh air and to be somewhat active. So I got ready and took a walk to work!

2:00 pm I can’t believe work was so productive.

My fever came down and I actually got more writing done than most days. I think I scared my body into not being sick…yes I know that’s bad but I’ll rest this weekend! Oh and no globe, but I figured it was because I was late…hmmmm.

7:00 pm Ryan calls!

Moran has been on this cross-Canada journey since he got back from Europe. It started off biking but turned into a train/walking adventure. Mostly because of his huge backpack lol.

I got to take him out to dinner and hear all about his Canada adventures! It was great seeing him after so long, if any of you student union execs are reading, you know your board turns into a family. Especially our board last year, the guys are totally my brothers:)

So we decide to take his backpack to my place and then walk around Ottawa for the rest of the night. Oh btw Ryan gets an earful of my roommate situation on the way home, I don’t think he fully believes me.
We get home and he meets the crazy girl (the crazy guy walked halfway home with us! He didn’t say one word, and we were talking about the books we’re reading, common no effort to make convo, really?! AWKWARD).

The crazy girl is even more awkward than her partner, she looks at me and says ever so rudely “So…who is this?” At first I wanted to burst out laughing at her weirdness, but I think I went into shock and said uhh he’s my friend from home…she ends the convo with an “OKAAYYY”.

WHERE IS THIS GIRL FROM?! SOOO WEIRD. Ryan finally believes me that they’re nuts, but still doesn’t believe how loud they are…ew.

The Ryan and Arati Adventures!

I take Rye to the market, we walk around and decide on the Heart and Crown’s patio. (I agree with Zach and Dan, it’s not that great) We end up catching up for most of the night on our adventures, mostly his Europe times. Then we start talking about the Dark Knight and comic books. If anyone knows Rye, he’s a big comic book guy, and if you know me, I’m a huge nerd  (Star Wars, comics book movies and shows, yea no really).

Our convo begins from the origins of Robin to how they could make a third movie. All while we are roaming the streets of Ottawa smoking mint chocolate cigars and finally ending up in a grocery store. AHAHHA oh the grocery store times.

Also, I was hoping Ryan had watched I’m Not There, but he hadn’t. Please, if anyone has seen it out there in interweb land, can you explain it to me?

The thing I love about Rye is that everything is an adventure, just like when you were a kid and going to the grocery store meant eating the crusted cheese of cheese buns and stealing coffee beans. HAHAH yes, we did do that.

Home Time: EWW

Of course Rye is hoping for the roommates to be at it so he can make them feel awkward, I told him they won’t care.

We get home and what do we see? That’s right, what everyone expects when they get home, their roommates on the living room table. Ew.
Rye then walks by, only to make them giggle and then move to they’re room. The crazy girl even came and talked to us after. Half-dressed.

Then we thought how funny Remek would be around them. Paul/Rem, you guys need to come see me next week.

What an adventure, needless to say the night ended with intense discussion about American politics and religion. That’s why I love Rye, a kid at heart who reads comic books, comments on our currents affairs and reads on eastern religions. Sorry ladies, he’s taken.


Day 5: I’ll be in the office for most of the day and then I’m heading home for my nephew’s birthday. He’s turning one!

Question, I’m getting him a children’s book. Yea I know he’s one and will probably eat the pages, but I figure I’m going to get him a book each year on his birthday and write a letter in it explaining what’s going on in the world. That way when he’s our age, he’ll have a library all thanks to his Mona Massi (aunty arati, long story, next blog entry). Yea so I’m the nerdy aunt, whatever, I love children’s books… Oh god, my kids are going to get picked on aren’t they. Hmmm.

Also, no globe today. This time I didn’t wait for disappointment, I just picked one up on my Starbucks run this morning.

Have a great weekend everyone! I can’t wait for everyone to be back next week!

- Shwarms

Thu Aug 21
Walk to Work!

Walk to Work!

Alone in the CASA Office: Day Three, Dharma.

Sup Friends,

First of all, thanks to everyone who’s been posting on my notes:) It’s cool to see peoples’ reactions to my random adventures and neurotic thoughts.

Second, I think I’m going to check with Ellen if we renewed our globe subscription before I put up signs. Someone please pray that the globe isn’t stolen tomorrow or I might actually loose it.

9:00 am Walking to Work

Walking to work this morning made me think of how blessed I am to be in Ottawa. I really do love this city. For all you politics nerds out there, check out the pic above. It’s my view as I walk to work in the mornings. Ha!

9:10 am Every Starbucks is packed, so I skip and get a Booster Juice. Strawberry sunshine with a protein booster. Amazing.

I get in the elevator with this man who is total scatterbrain carrying binders. So I press level 4, and of course it doesn’t stop and goes to level 10, the man’s stop. Why would the elevator stop for me right? Geez. At least now I know the best conversation topic in this building: the haunted elevators.

10:30ish Starbucks and yelling on the street.

The lines are still long, what is going on in this city? Crack in the coffee?

But I get the most interesting call from a friend who tells me he hooked up with this interesting girl. And me being the dramatic type (shutup neeraj), I was in shock at the story that I stopped on the street and screamed “shutup!” Total valley girl style. It was embarrassing because I broke out in laugher, and these two super cute guys stopped to look at the crazy girl on her cell phone almost dropping her latte on her pretty new dress.

Good Morning- except the missing globe.

11:13 am A New Task!

Today I’m feeling needy. Yesterday there was no contact from CASA staff, and I think more than me feeling needy, I need to be felt needed. It’s this weird work-a-holic, wanting to be busy, syndrome. Also che is sick in India and I can’t do anything about it.

I get it from my dad, he’s a work-a-holic, as he says, or Hinduism says, your Dharma should be your number one priority. Which just means that your duty or righteous path, whatever it may be which can be different with each of your roles, is the most important task you have. So put your heart into completing your Dharma. For example, as a staff member I have an obligation to the organization, members, and to students in Canada. As a girlfriend, I have an obligation to be there for my partner when he’s sick. Or as a friend, be there with a dramatic reaction to news of a good hookup. Lol.

So when Rick emailed me asking for something in the office, I was actually thrilled. Lol, I’m a loser. I think I’m starting to embrace it. And when he said the staff is reading my bloggings, I was pretty excited.

12:00 pm Lunch

After my huge booster juice I wanted something small, so I went to the café across the street. Supporting independent business, plus their veggie panini is great! I watched some news while eating, but the plane crash was too sad for me to watch, so I switched to a re-run of mad men.

Oh and Dan, you’re going to be annoyed by this, but it was cold after lunch so I turned on the heater in Emily’s office. I know, I’m weird, but it was chilly!

Phone tag.

The rest of the day was work and this thing I call, phone tag. If you’ve ever been to the CASA office, or called, you know the phone call initially goes to a main lineand then gets transferred through to an ext. Well, we in the office usually try and guess who the call is going to, and then run to our phones.

I’m alone in the office, so I basically stop and wait to see where it goes. If it goes to Jillian’s, that’s the only time I actually go and check, it might be media or something, who knows. But today the phone calls were all for Ellen’s and Zach’s phone. I’m trying to tune it out now.

5:45 pm Home Time!

Shoppers Drug Mart under our building is moving, Jillian and Deeps, I totally got awesome stuff on sale. I have this thing for Shoppers, it’s therapeutic for me.

That’s about it for today. Oh, if anyone wants to know more about CASA and what we do at the federal level for post-secondary students, feel free to give me a call at the office. I’m playing phone tag, might as well be worth it.

Arati plugging casa, Zach has a huge smile on his face.

Loves,

Sharma

Wed Aug 20

Alone in the CASA Office: Day Two, The Price of Knowledge, literally.

Today I’ve convinced myself that the office is haunted. Laugh it out everyone, I’ll give you a second. No, but seriously, what is up with those elevators? How is it that every one I go into refuses to close, and as soon as I leave, oh there it closes and I have to wait for the next one! AND how about the random travelling the elevators do, ALL THE TIME.

Also, the cleaning guy and I have become friends. I don’t think he knows much English though, but he communicates the bare minimum, and around that time I’m in super focus mode anyway. He comes around 6:30pm if anyone wants to meet him, nice guy.

Oh and our globe was stolen again. I might just lurk in the salon tomorrow and watch the people taking the globes…it’s day two and I’ve already lost it. Great.


9:00am Student Financial Aid

I had to reset my OSAP password, because for the first time since pursuing higher education I finally qualify for some sort of financial aid. I think it’s pretty exciting actually, especially since my sister starts at Western this year, my parents will be able to focus more funds on her.

So to reset my password is a process, I have to go to the UofO financial aid office to do it in person. I begin to think this is going to be the longest line possible, kinda like the Mac registrar’s office during this time. But what I see is an organized “one-stop-shop” with students taking numbers to meet with whatever service they need. I actually enjoyed this, sounds crazy, a student financial aid office enjoyable? Weird.

I did take interesting notes for my underrepresented students research.

9:15am Walking to Work

Work is super close to the UofO campus so I chose to walk and maybe pick up a latte on the way. As I’m contemplating my love/hate relationship with Starbucks (calories vs. being a yuppie vs. consumerism vs. mmm vanilla bean), I hear a parade. In the middle of Laurier street, God I love Ottawa.

Living in Ottawa really reminds you of our Monarch.

Work All day: No Human Contact – Except for Azim’s phone call

Work was productive today, not much happened.

1:00pm Lunch!

I went to Marcello’s for lunch, got my usual rice and vegetable soup. Since there was no one in the office to have lunch withL I HAD to watch the new episode of the Hills.

I know, I shouldn’t admit this, but I do keep up with the hills. I don’t know what it is about bad reality tv, but I’m hooked. This episode was so stupid, Lo and Audrina are still fighting, and Spencer was rude to Heidi’s sister. Urgh he’s so dumb.

Okay enough before my brain melts.

6:30pm: Home Time!

Need to leave before eyes get stuck reading the monitor – I might need to start printing more documents.

Encounter with the friendly cleaner, he’s so nice. We should give him a Christmas…oops a “Holiday” gift.

- Arati

Growing up...

Remember that episode of Sex and the City when the girls were talking about eating out alone. How women are viewed when they do eat out alone, at least once they get up the nerve to. Well when I went to Montreal to visit David we spoke about being new to our cities and thought about eating out alone. I thought I would be brave and try it in Ottawa.

Well I’ve tried eating out alone 3 times, just on a patio, maybe even read and people watch. But every time I’ve chickened out and ordered take-out. Oh and Starbucks doesn’t count, because I always read and drink my calorie-ridden latte with one of the 7 books I’m reading at the same time.

Today I decided to be brave. I was walking home from work and went through UofO campus only to pass by their grad café that had been closed for renovations. Remek, Paul and Ryan might remember it, but for those of you who haven’t seen it, it’s this cute café with fresh food and a nice little patio. I said to myself, Arati you’re a grown-up, you can do this.

I walk in, kinda nervous to be alone, and of course ask the server for a take-out menu. As I order my pizza I decide to have a drink and read on the patio while waiting for my food. Well, little did I know the part of Love in the Time of Cholera would get so intense, I ended up finishing my drink and most of my food while completed engrossed in the novel.

This is a big step peeps, big step.